Yes. Like many I am scrolling through my twitter account and read the same things as everyone else. But, as of late I have noticed that there have been some telling tweets [as well speculations, rumours, etc] going on about celebrities private lives, especially Justin's. Now, part of me being the Libra that I am trying very hard to be diplomatic, tactful and trying to ignore everything that is going on [it's pretty much how I am] ; but there is a fine line between having opinions and using the rumour mill to further a career or stretch the ever increasing 15 mins of fame to which it seems many people in my generation love to have.
So here are my opinions on certain things and people do not have to agree with me and that is okay don't have to; thankfully I currently reside in a country where individuals are entitled to express their opinions on topics. First and foremost like many, yes I was shocked about the entire smoking weed that is currently circulating. I think growing up in the music world and having several family members who are musicians it is something that me personally does not necessarily shock me. Would I do it? No it is not something that I am into...not saying I am better than anyone else it just isn't my thing; secondly, he is an adult the choices [and even mistakes] are for him to learn and grow as a person. I do not know not one single "perfect" person so for people to sit and continuously judge about what he does...really is not fair.
Granted, people see him as a role model for young children but what we should be teaching our children that even role models are not perfect and are human. If there is one "perfect" role model it should be God [for those who are religious as I am] and if anything those are the sorts of people we should strive to be as because as mentioned before...we're just human it isn't fair to judge someone based on choices; I am sure there are things other people may decide to do that may be appalling for others so let's just be fair.
I think people are so quick to judge someone and of course the media is thirsty; but then again I lost all respect for most media after the handling of the death of my own parents. It was if my sisters and I could not grieve in peace without the media doing something and quite honestly...think that was the first time where I learned how we perceive people and how they truly are can be quite different.
Needless to say, I still love him regardless. He isn't perfect...but then again no one is. Is it something that I would personally do...no it isn't but that does not mean I am just going to leave a person because he does something I wouldn't agree with see to me that is so conditional and flaky. Would I worry...of course because if one thing would not wish for him to go down a much more serious path but he isn't the first celebrity [if he does in fact] or person to smoke. I mean in reality it could be photo shopped or anything so don't be so quick to make assumptions about anything we see...especially if it comes from the media.
We should focus more on the positive aspects instead of creating rumours and chaos over irrelevant issues. I focus on the fact that he has a big heart which should be the most important thing; it just seems as if someone is trying to do something positive there are always people who are negative who try to bring that person down. But am I leaving...no way...here to stay. the end and I wouldn't want to love a perfect person anyway...perfect for people can be quite boring.....
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