People lately have been asking me why I have the separate facebook account and about the @pagerworld twitter account. Actually, if anything I am [and everyone else should] be grateful because they are supporting and promoting events, causes that I am affiliated with as many of those who I am close to. Yes, I also know the individuals who the run site as one of them is my cousin. She has been gracious enough and supportive enough [as the rest of my family] in me becoming a performer and she like anyone else wants to support events that I am attending, shows I am doing and things of that nature. Why would someone criticize this I feel is completely arrogant and ignorant to the fact that they themselves are also being promoted and supported. It is something that we all are supposed to together as a unit so to be completely blatant and disrespectful shows a lot about how people are as individuals.
My cousin and a close friend decided to make another account because for one they are tired of seeing all the disrespectful comments and basically bullying/harassment that has been coming from a few individuals for some time now. My friends and others I know see the comments and the only reason they do not respond is because they feel it would make the situation worse for me. I have chosen to ignore it because it does not bother me and I believe shading someone over the internet is childish and is lacking of courage given the general nature people are unable to express these comments to me personally. Now when someone decides to harass me via my own personal social media sites yes I have the right to take action and not deal with unnecessary “drama” that some seem so intent to create over nothing.
I am so very thankful for everyone at PagerWorld who run both the FB and twitter account because of my schedule it is becoming more difficult to keep up with things and the only reason I do post online is because 99.9% of the time I access any social media site is via my cell phone. No one has time to sit in front of a computer relentlessly…at least I do not.
I am all about trying to pursue my dreams and encourage others and it would be grand if others could do the same, and I am not sure if it is jealousy or out of boredom [quite possibly both] that people feel the constant need to criticise my life. I do not put myself off as “famous” or better than anyone else but if people are so insecure and threatened by the concept that I am…then perhaps I am. If I am not “famous” then why do people whom I don’t even know feel the constant need to talk about my life and those I choose to keep in it.
In the end, the emotional maturity of some leaves me questioning if bullying ever ends after we are finished with school and the answer is no it doesn’t. Some talk about the hate they receive via twitter but for me it mainly has been facebook, the users are literally from Hell.
Focus on something that is positive and not be so engulfed in another person’s life, because truly at the end of the day neither one of you cross my mind. Some people need drama and to belittle others to feel and remain relevant and that is the real pathetic issue at hand.”
My cousin and a close friend decided to make another account because for one they are tired of seeing all the disrespectful comments and basically bullying/harassment that has been coming from a few individuals for some time now. My friends and others I know see the comments and the only reason they do not respond is because they feel it would make the situation worse for me. I have chosen to ignore it because it does not bother me and I believe shading someone over the internet is childish and is lacking of courage given the general nature people are unable to express these comments to me personally. Now when someone decides to harass me via my own personal social media sites yes I have the right to take action and not deal with unnecessary “drama” that some seem so intent to create over nothing.
I am so very thankful for everyone at PagerWorld who run both the FB and twitter account because of my schedule it is becoming more difficult to keep up with things and the only reason I do post online is because 99.9% of the time I access any social media site is via my cell phone. No one has time to sit in front of a computer relentlessly…at least I do not.
I am all about trying to pursue my dreams and encourage others and it would be grand if others could do the same, and I am not sure if it is jealousy or out of boredom [quite possibly both] that people feel the constant need to criticise my life. I do not put myself off as “famous” or better than anyone else but if people are so insecure and threatened by the concept that I am…then perhaps I am. If I am not “famous” then why do people whom I don’t even know feel the constant need to talk about my life and those I choose to keep in it.
In the end, the emotional maturity of some leaves me questioning if bullying ever ends after we are finished with school and the answer is no it doesn’t. Some talk about the hate they receive via twitter but for me it mainly has been facebook, the users are literally from Hell.
Focus on something that is positive and not be so engulfed in another person’s life, because truly at the end of the day neither one of you cross my mind. Some people need drama and to belittle others to feel and remain relevant and that is the real pathetic issue at hand.”
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