For quite some time now I have been debating whether to write something on my tumblr [because this is more like my diary now] but it seems there has been the ever struggle with my personal life and people here wanting to discuss it. I also know that growing up within a relatively famous family I am rather used to dealing with all of these things but even for me it is difficult and like everyone entitled to privacy but the general point of all this is...what is it anyone's business regardless for? And this is primarily talking to those who have been making a rather large deal out of it for the longest and which I have been basically ignoring for the longest.
First of all, I don’t even know where this all started and to be honest I really don’t care; but why over these past few months I have been getting some of the most cruel hate than anyone could possibly imagine? Sure, I can understand if you don’t like my taste in music or the same artists but why would someone take the time go to someone else’s twitter/facebook and make out right hateful comments with no reasoning behind it?
Also, I never discuss my personal life publicly and everything is generally assumed; there is no reason for me to write all over twitter if I am seeing someone or who I hang out with and if I don’t do these things I am constantly called “fake” and “delusional”. Yes, my elder brother was a professional musician as was my Mum, but I never felt the need to write all over the internet all of the things they’ve done. I was always raised to be humble my sisters, brother and I were at least. One reason I adore my brother he never walked around like he was the lead guitarist of a band he was just himself he lived life and treated everyone fairly…isn’t that how it is supposed to be?
First of all, I don’t even know where this all started and to be honest I really don’t care; but why over these past few months I have been getting some of the most cruel hate than anyone could possibly imagine? Sure, I can understand if you don’t like my taste in music or the same artists but why would someone take the time go to someone else’s twitter/facebook and make out right hateful comments with no reasoning behind it?
Also, I never discuss my personal life publicly and everything is generally assumed; there is no reason for me to write all over twitter if I am seeing someone or who I hang out with and if I don’t do these things I am constantly called “fake” and “delusional”. Yes, my elder brother was a professional musician as was my Mum, but I never felt the need to write all over the internet all of the things they’ve done. I was always raised to be humble my sisters, brother and I were at least. One reason I adore my brother he never walked around like he was the lead guitarist of a band he was just himself he lived life and treated everyone fairly…isn’t that how it is supposed to be?
Now, I am also getting and have been for some time “hate” over who I am supposedly “dating”. You know, even if I wasn’t I wouldn’t discuss it because what business is it of anyone else except for me and him?And I am just here for my dancing, nothing else.
Yes and to be honest I think it is completely flattering because I think Justin is brilliant as a musician [and talented] and he has the hugest heart of anyone I have ever seen and yes, I would be totally open to the idea of it.
I also think that because I tend to be more private about my personal life it leaves it wide open so people think they can say and do whatever they want and I wouldn’t say anything about it. I think he is entitled to a personal life just as much as I am and as I said before, even if it is no I just wouldn’t answer that because what is the purpose of constantly answering that question?
Yes and to be honest I think it is completely flattering because I think Justin is brilliant as a musician [and talented] and he has the hugest heart of anyone I have ever seen and yes, I would be totally open to the idea of it.
I also think that because I tend to be more private about my personal life it leaves it wide open so people think they can say and do whatever they want and I wouldn’t say anything about it. I think he is entitled to a personal life just as much as I am and as I said before, even if it is no I just wouldn’t answer that because what is the purpose of constantly answering that question?
I think people around here get all into because I’ve choreographed/performed a couple routines to his music so people automatically assume things; honestly I could walk into a room and say I like green peas and people would take it the wrong way. This is actually a lesson I learned [believe it or not] from my ex boyfriend about being responsible about what we post online and what we say/do affects other people. Beforehand, I never really thought about things in that light but it is true.
So yea, what people say to me does affect me I am a person with feelings but what actually surprises me is where the hate is coming from and it is not from the people you would expect it to come from; and that is all I am going to say on that topic.
Basically bottom line, no matter who I am dating or not should be between me and that person. I’ve never been the one to post all over twitter or facebook “hey, I’m talking to this person” or essentially bragging about it…that really isn’t my thing. I also think it is something that people would eventually know or not and what is so wrong with me wanting to have some privacy with my relationships? I have guys who are good friends just as I have girls who are good friends. If I am into someone romantically those closest to me would know and obviously he would know…but what is the point of blasting it all over the internet?
So do I like him? Yes, very much so would I date him…absolutely. Anything other than that should be private ya know? And honestly, I have no idea where he [Justin Bieber] is with his personal life, I don’t pry into someone’s personal life and I don’t do the Da Vinci Code all over twitter trying to figure someone out. I just feel at least around here it is getting out of control [where I’m at] but like I mentioned is it flattering most definitely because he is an amazing person, but I am just going to leave my personal life just that…private. I also hope that people would be supportive of whomever I choose to date and thankfully most people have been so respectful of my privacy and cannot be grateful enough for that.
So for now on when people ask me about all that I am just going to leave it as private because I feel a relationship of any kind should be between two people and I know from previous experience dating someone who is a celebrity it can be difficult time maintaining privacy and think learning from my past mistakes and apply them to the future. And honestly me writing about this now is a big stretch for me, and know it frustrates people but I am just in general a very private person especially in relationships and like I said even yes or no…just not going to go there….
So yea, what people say to me does affect me I am a person with feelings but what actually surprises me is where the hate is coming from and it is not from the people you would expect it to come from; and that is all I am going to say on that topic.
Basically bottom line, no matter who I am dating or not should be between me and that person. I’ve never been the one to post all over twitter or facebook “hey, I’m talking to this person” or essentially bragging about it…that really isn’t my thing. I also think it is something that people would eventually know or not and what is so wrong with me wanting to have some privacy with my relationships? I have guys who are good friends just as I have girls who are good friends. If I am into someone romantically those closest to me would know and obviously he would know…but what is the point of blasting it all over the internet?
So do I like him? Yes, very much so would I date him…absolutely. Anything other than that should be private ya know? And honestly, I have no idea where he [Justin Bieber] is with his personal life, I don’t pry into someone’s personal life and I don’t do the Da Vinci Code all over twitter trying to figure someone out. I just feel at least around here it is getting out of control [where I’m at] but like I mentioned is it flattering most definitely because he is an amazing person, but I am just going to leave my personal life just that…private. I also hope that people would be supportive of whomever I choose to date and thankfully most people have been so respectful of my privacy and cannot be grateful enough for that.
So for now on when people ask me about all that I am just going to leave it as private because I feel a relationship of any kind should be between two people and I know from previous experience dating someone who is a celebrity it can be difficult time maintaining privacy and think learning from my past mistakes and apply them to the future. And honestly me writing about this now is a big stretch for me, and know it frustrates people but I am just in general a very private person especially in relationships and like I said even yes or no…just not going to go there….
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