Saturday, May 25, 2013

an open letter

Honestly, this is going to be the most personal blog I will ever write on here as I tend to be a very private person in public and not always write about certain aspects of my life. I am however writing this because of something I recently read the other day, and know some are debating if it actually was written by him nonetheless it  brings up many issues that we need to consider and my own thoughts on it.
  First and foremost, I do not know of anyone who I have the utmost respect and admiration for; someone who has an amazing work ethic and puts so much energy and effort into his performances and giving his all to his fans and the like. Also, after everything he has been through these past few months while still maintaining so much maturity which is far beyond anyone I've ever known.
  Justin gives so much of himself to others and quite honestly there has been very few people who have been able to bring so many together in such a positive way. The first time I experienced this it completely blew me away in the sense he truly inspires people...gives people so much hope and to live for. Sure, music may not always fix everything but believe me it does help...I know from experience and there are times when people need to hear the words "you're beautiful" or "it's going to be alright" you know why? There are people who are alone is this world and this is the only time a girl may hear she is beautiful or that someone is there to tell them it's going to be alright or to just offer a hug.
    Our society has ultimately become a very cruel place emotionally. Girls are much meaner to others than ever, name calling and degrading has become the popular norm in our society and when will this all end? It won't until we look at ourselves as a whole and begin the feed the negativity with positivity.
  I also feel our society has become very anti social in the sense when people need space we should respect that, a person's private life we should respect that. But do we? No, we don't. It's almost as if our society functions on a level of entitlement to which we are not allowed. No one, including Justin is expected to justify  what he does with the public...he's not obligated nor is any other performer. So if someone says back off people need to start learning to respect that.
   Justin may feel he is lost, but honestly I don't think he is...what I do believe is that he needs the respect he works so hard to achieve in this life. He is an amazing person inside and out and has the biggest heart of anyone I could ever imagine, so yes I think people are going a little too extreme. What happened while he was in Europe, his birthday, the Billboards...no one deserved that especially Justin.
   Justin is a remarkable man and people should start to recognize that and no he won't always be a kid a forever none of us will, we grow we make mistakes this is all the part of growing as people. No one is perfect and quite frankly this is why I love him. Sometimes we learn over time who our true friends are, etc and I'm still going through the process as well. We learn by actually living...almost as a trial and error.
  Honestly, in all of this I am not sure whether I am a belieber per say, but as a performer myself I can relate and do I love him...yes, will I continue to support him yes because if people truly care they wouldn't drop someone for being human...there is only one person who is perfect, but Justin yes I will be here always...know it is difficult right now but it won't always be...I promise. Sometimes people are so negative with their own lives that when they see someone who is actually making a positive change it creates jealousy...but don't let them win. Know that you have millions of people who support and love you. You are doing a remarkable job with everything, but I absolutely adore, respect and admire you in so many ways.  You're still you...you always have been we all are this will never change. I'm here and I love you.

xoxo


Nat

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