Wednesday, September 12, 2012

to thine own self be true....

Nude or no nude? Yes, this is a topic I must address considering I am involved in a world which loves to show off women being nude or pretty close to it. It is something in which I deal with constantly and even passed up on modeling gigs and other events because I refuse to go nude; it was just a personal decision in which I made for myself because for me it isn't something I would like to do.
No, it isn't because I have confidence issues it is more of a personal decision which I decided to make early on. Some people do have issues with it but most must also understand being an Orthodox Christian and being in this world can collide occasionally and this issue is something in which they do collide on many facets. The personal decision I made is not only culturally, but it is more respect of myself and my family and not to sound harsh but it is far easier and we do get paid much more quickly the sooner we take our clothes off. I feel being naked is something I would want to do with someone with whom I have a relationship with not the whole needs to see everything or know everything about us.  I am appreciative of those who respect my wishes regarding this concept, and I am very open about sexuality but there are some things I choose to keep private and this is one of them. I also think our society has lost the idea of respecting and setting up boundaries. I am not expecting to be the cartoon candy girl forever, yet still there is a way to be sexy and feminine without going to the extreme to be raunchy ( I mean super duper) and being nude.

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